Commentary

The Outing of Larry Craig?

By Joan Opyr, 10-19-06

Is he or isn't he?

Gay activist Mike Rogers claimed Idaho Senator Larry Craig has had gay affairs on the Ed Schultz Radio Show yesterday. Craig denies the allegations. New West's Jill Kuraitis reports that Craig's press secretary, Sid Smith, says "The Senator says this story is absolutely ridiculous – almost laughable . . . . It has no basis in fact.” Who's telling the truth, Rogers or Craig? Does it matter? Yes, it does, but only because Craig is a big wheel in the GOP, and that means he can't be gay. The Republicans talk about a big tent, but in truth, it's a pup tent. There's only enough room for Jerry Falwell, Pat Robertson, and the Coleman stove of hellfire and damnation that serves as their Bible. If you're not white, straight, Christian and male, out in the cold you go.

Three-dollar Bill. Gay as a goose. Larry the Prairie Fairy. He was born in Idaho, but reared on the Potomac. I heard my first Larry-Craig-is-gay joke more than fourteen years ago on my first visit to Idaho. Next to dyke drama, drag shows, softball and dancing, “Who’s in the club?” is the most popular pastime in the gay community. We “knew” the truth about Rosie O’Donnell when she was pretending to have a crush on Tom Cruise. We “knew” about Ellen DeGeneres when she was starring in Mr. Wrong. Tony Perkins, Montgomery Clift, Rock Hudson, Liberace -- was anyone really surprised? The one and only outing that has ever startled me was that of Jim McGreevey, former Governor of New Jersey. Not a whisper, not a word, but then New Jersey is a long way from Idaho, and McGreevey was not a well-known national figure.

Neither was Larry Craig. He’s Idaho’s senior Senator, but I doubt many people outside of the state or the Washington beltway had ever heard of him until this week. If that sounds harsh, think about this: can you name the Senators of the states that border your own? I’m a pretty savvy political observer, and I know that Maria Cantwell and Patty Murray represent Washington. Conrad Burns and . . . some other guy represent Montana. Oregon? Um, Ron Wyden? Maybe? Wyoming? Oh, hell, I don’t know.

Utah threw up Orrin Hatch, and Nevada gave us Harry Reid, but these are men who have been around forever and who hold senior positions in their respective parties. I see their faces in Time Magazine and on CNN. Like Hillary Clinton and Barack Obama, they’re political celebrities -- talking heads and household names.

Nevertheless, Larry Craig is an important man. He’s competent and well-respected. He's not is a star, but in Idaho, that’s something of a relief. We sent the late and looney Helen Chenoweth to Congress three times, where she muttered about black helicopters, spoke in defense of right-wing militias, made stupid remarks about endangered salmon, and railed against the immorality of Bill Clinton even after her own affair with a married man had been exposed. Larry Craig is no Helen Chenoweth. He’s a Republican, and he’s a conservative, but the similarities end there. Craig and I are on opposite ends of the political spectrum, and several times a month, I write him a letter or send him an email to tell him that I think he’s dead wrong. In response, I get a boilerplate letter, rubber-stamped with his signature, explaining his position. I disagree with nearly every vote he's ever cast, but I recognize that the man is no fool. I'm sorry he takes the positions he takes, but he has not shamed the state as did Chenoweth, Steve Symms, and George Hansen. Larry Craig is a hard-right Republican; he is not, thank G-d, a blooming idiot.

Like many gay people, I have mixed feelings about outing. Larry Craig has opposed legislation like the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, ENDA, that would benefit gay and lesbian people, and he has been a vocal supporter of several anti-gay bills. Craig voted for the Defense of Marriage Act. He supports a Constitutional amendment to ban same-sex marriage. If he’s gay, then he’s a shade of Roy Cohn, and I believe he should be exposed as a self-loathing hypocrite. If he’s had sex with other men, then he’s been playing a very nasty political game. He has attacked his own to advance his career within the fundamentalist, gay-bating GOP. If Larry Craig is a closeted homosexual, then I am in the awkward position of having no fellow feeling for him whatsoever. I’m a lesbian, and I was once closeted, but I can’t sympathize. Why? Because I didn’t toss rocks at other gays and lesbians from the safety of my closet. I didn’t hide behind closed doors in my glass house and do active harm to my GLBT brothers and sisters.

I feel no pity for Larry Craig. Like Mike Rogers, the blog writer who has theoretically and allegedly "outed" Craig, I would show the Senator no mercy. Craig has done nothing whatsoever to deserve it. On the contrary, he has courted our anger and our scorn. And yet outing is such an odd and unsettling thing. Why is it that being gay is still so shocking? Why is the private life of a boring, dull, workaday politician like Larry Craig suddenly front-page news? Does it really still surprise us that public figures lie about their private lives or that conservative Republicans really do come in all races, creeds, and sexual orientations -- they just hide it to get ahead in a homophobic and heterosexist world?

Here in Idaho, we’ve all heard the whispers. The rumor mill has been grinding for years, peppering us with terrible jokes like those recited above. Will Larry Craig go the way of Spokane Mayor Jim West? That was a bad joke, too. Want to hear the worst? How do you get a job in the Spokane Mayor’s office? Drop to your knees and face West.

Wouldn’t it be better if we could all just come out and stay out? Wouldn’t it be better if Larry Craig, gay or straight, had used his political power to make the world a better, safer, and more equitable place for all people, gay, straight, lesbian or bisexual? Charity, after all, begins at home. [End of article]
Comment By P, 10-19-06

Where is the article?

Comment By Jill Kuraitis, 10-19-06

http://www.newwest.net/index.php/city/ article/idaho_sen_larry_craig_denies_allegations_of_same_sex_affairs/C108/L108/
I also fixed the link in the story above. Just hit my name.

Jill Kuraitis

Comment By TM Stoker, 10-19-06

You're right--outing is "an odd and unsettling thing." I don't believe that I could ever out someone, even a hypocrite who did do damage against fellow gays, for one basic reason. It's bad enough to feel you must be closeted, but to believe that you must mask suspicion of your own homosexuality by trashing gays brave enough to be out--well, that must create your own private little hell. And yes, it would be a much kinder world if everyone could come out and stay out, without fear of the possible repercussions.

Comment By Lida van der Merwe, 10-20-06

I’m not American, and must admit that I’ve never heard of Larry Craig before reading this article and the earlier one by Jill Kuraitis. I normally don’t think outing someone is a nice thing to do, but if he indeed had sex with men, while voting for a number of anti-gay and gay-unfriendly bills, he deserves to be outed. Come to think of it, if it is true, (and let’s face it, where there’s smoke, there usually is a fire), he actually should have an even worse fate than just being outed.

Comment By SE Baughman, 10-20-06

Yes, outing is "unsettling". But, how hypocritical is it to live in a closet and vote against the Employment Non-Discrimination Act? Self preservation and protecting his political career appear to be Larry Craig's only objectives. I have no problem with outing a self-serving hypocrite. He deserves a taste of some real discrimination from within his own party and from the GLBT community. The passage of ENDA could end the need for closets.

Comment By Patrick, 10-20-06

I think this a BIG step for Idaho to see that Gay people can be people they Love and adore like Larry Craig. Larry has done something wonderful for the Gay community by showing you can Play with hot studs and still serve the Potato heads of Idaho who believe in who, and what he is about. You go girl!

Comment By Kim, 10-20-06

I grew up in Idaho, and attended the University of Idaho during the 1970s. As a (male) student government official, I had dealings with Larry Craig, and had the startling and uncomfortable experience of being "chatted up" by Larry Craig during the course of a meeting. I was surprised then, as I am now, that Larry Craig hadn't been outed (by the LGBT community) or ousted (by his Republican fascist friends) because he was so obviously gay or bisexual.

I am at the same time both saddened and angered that a powerful Senator can sell out other LGBT people for mere political power and influence.

Kim Smith, Eugene, Oregon

Comment By Pat Olson, 10-21-06

If I remember correctly, when the rumors began flying about Larry Craig's secret life, voila, a wedding happened quickly. Arranged? Who knows and who cares. However, for Larry to sell out other LGBT people is certainly Republican, but still despicable. Perhaps he should join the Jim West (former Spokane Mayor) and Mark Foley Club.

Comment By Daryl L. Hunter, 10-22-06

Idaho is about 50% Mormon, if any gays want to hold office here they may want to keep it to themselves. Of course they can shout it from the rooftops and achieve public service failure by shooting their campaign in the foot.

It is ironic that the sabatours in this case are gay. One step forward, two steps back.

Comment By Robert Beal, 10-24-06

"Larry Craig is no idiot" is an awfully nice thing to say for one so highly competent at greasing the skids for resource-extracting corporations. He serviced Boise Cascade well by facilitating their logging of old growth -- before they "washed their hands" of the logging business.

His expertise (and that of his string puller -- ?-- former Idaho senator James McClure) was also put to use as head of the group in the Senate responsible for strategy related to the Republican party's shift to the extreme right. His speech patterns even mimic those of charlatan TV ministers.

The guy is a bought, sold, and delivered creep.

Comment By Saundra Lund, 10-24-06

All this talk about the outing of Larry Craig makes me laugh because as others have mentioned, those of us living in Idaho have known for well over a decade. Indeed, it's been talked about in Washington for probably just as long. The only one Craig has been fooling is himself . . . and maybe his wife.

Now, the continued selling out of our nation's people and resources -- that's a tragedy :-(

Comment By LB, 11-03-06

You libs crack me up. When the Foley scandal hit it was the libs that soiled their pants over it! Another Gay Pedophile is outed but because he is a Republican you pounce... had he been a DEM you libs would have defended him.

Comment By bobby joe, 11-11-06

wasn't larry craig president of the gay young republicans at university of idaho in the 1970's? look it up.

Comment By Jim Santa Fe, 8-27-07

Joan Opyr wrote the column that should have been written in the Idaho Statesman long ago. Of course, now they are forced to face up to what everyone already knew. I agree with Joan that the loathsome thing about Craig is his hypocricy and his deep-shit Republicanism that calls for denial of one's nature. He did not have the guts to do the right thing; few people in advanced positions do. But...and it's a big BUT...in this day when the Bush brand of Republicans have so screwed up America, both home and abroad, I'll take any advantage possible to get Craig out and a less radical person in. Aren't there any Republican moderates in Idaho?
Aren't there any Democrats? Used to be!!! What happened to them.
Jim Santa Fe

Comment By H., 8-27-07

"What of the cripple who hates dancers?

What of the ox who loves his yoke and deems the elk and deer of the forest stray and vagrant things?

What of the old serpent who cannot shed his skin, and calls all others naked and shameless?

And of him who comes early to the wedding feast, and when over-fed and tired goes his way saying that all feasts are violations and all feasters law-breakers?

What shall I say of these save that they too stand in the sunlight, yet with their backs to the sun?

They see only their shadows, and their shadows are their laws."

Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet

Comment By Jim Santa Fe, 8-27-07

Yeah, H., what about all that? What about all that
old utterly out-of-date prophecy, not only Gibran, but
all the others dating back a couple of thousand years,
that don't mean diddley squat today?
Let's talk about Socrates: To thine own self be true.
If Larry had just NOT taken such an anti-gay position
in the Senate for many years! He's painted himself into
a corner, and he can rot there.
Good Luck Idaho - and God save you from prophets
and shadows.
Jim SF

Comment By Frank, 8-28-07

So many Republicans are bogus creeps and this is another example. Republicans in the know have long known Craig is gay, but as long as he tows and votes the BS party line, then all is well. Wake up.

Comment By Amy Alkon, 8-28-07

When you're publicly advocating anti-gay policy the apparent hypocrisy of your private life becomes very, very relevant.

I look forward to the day when the fact of a person's sexuality is about as exciting to the rest of us as hearing that they collect stamps.

Comment By H., 8-28-07

@ Jim:
The Prophet is a poem, not a prophecy, written in 1923, hardly "a couple of thousand years" ago.
Kahlil Gibran was not a prophet but a poet, much like William Shakespeare, whose play Hamlet contains the line "To thine own self be true," which is based on Socrates' adage "know thyself."

The dumbing down of America is no joke!

But yeah, Craig painted himself into a corner. It will be interesting to see what happens.

Comment By Rumple Stiltskin, 8-28-07

There shall be no national catharsis, until we see the senatorial toilet tramp make a blubbering mea culpa live on C-Span. Let the paddling begin!

Comment By Jill Kuraitis, 8-28-07

See the latest story at NewWest.Net/Boise -

Comment By Cody, 8-29-07

If people like Craig didn't push political hot buttons like Family Values and the like, his sexuality would have been a non-issue, but because he is a member of a party that, at this point, would never allow a Gay, Black, Female or Non-Relegious individual as a vocal member, he could never be open aboput such things. However, i must say that he should not be compared to Gay men. He is a deviant. Had he engaged in the act somewhere else, even if he had paid for it in some alley, i wouldn't care, but invading the privacy of a fellow bathroom attendant...that's just creapy. It's hard enough to use a public restroom as it is, let alone with someone tapping your foot and rubbing the bottom of your stall.

Realize, we are taking exception to his hypocrisy and creapy nature, and not that he might or might not be gay. Let's not put a mark against Gay folks.

Comment By Kim Smith, 8-29-07

Now that shit has hit the fan, and Larry Craig has been found propositioning for sex with men at a Minneapolis men's room, it is time for the Idaho Statesman newspaper and the Lewiston Tribune newspaper to address squarely the issue of Craig's hypocrisy in being a closet gay man, and voting against the interests of other GLBT people. Who is the Statesman and the Tribune trying to protect? What interests are being protected? In Idaho, the one-party (Republican) state seeks to protect its own interests above the interests of the people to clean government. If Idaho had a two-party system, opposing views would be aired, and clean government would come to Idaho.

I continue to be saddened by Larry Craig's lying and obfuscations. When will the newspapers of Idaho put the public good above their private interests?

Comment By sandy, 8-29-07

Craig's immoral, deceitful, disgusting, vile and illegal behavior is what should push those in Idaho to get rid of him. Who is larry craig? He's not been honest with himself or anyone else. Maybe if they saw the real larry craig, they wouldn't have voted him in time and time again. When the grey haired loyal republicans finally wakeup and realize their party if full of self-loathing gay men bent on power threw lies, it's going to be ugly for them.

Comment By Kate, 8-29-07

I'm a Republican and I also reside in Idaho. I think we've all known for a long time he's gay (possibly bi-sexual but the marriage is supposedly a charade from reliable friends in the know), but being gay does not mean you act on your sexuality. I truly believe Larry Craig loathes his gayness, and he "acts out" when he can no longer suppress it or when he believes he deserves to be outed because his gay impulses are truly immoral. The whole thing is tragic, and even more so when he denies it so vehemently. I don't find him being gay or with gay impulses as a problem, I find that he has lied to us, used poor judgment and utilized his position as a senator to try and persuade the police he needed to overlook his indiscretions. Besides resigning, he should pays his debt to society (not the one he pled to, but for soliciting sex in a public place) and that he gets the counseling he needs. Otherwise, he'll be tormeted the rest of his life.

Comment By Bob, 8-31-07

What's the big deal? Ain't none of you ever see a gay legislator before? Fer crying out loud, he's a conservative from Idaho, how'd you expect him to vote anyway? And is soliciting sex in a toilet any worse than giving Monica Lewisky the angry pirate in the Oval Office? Live and let live I say. Ar...Ar.

Comment By Les, 8-31-07

Senator Larry Craig vs President Bill Clinton, whose worse?

We all sin, R's or D's.

R's know they sin and resign.

The D's on the other hand excuse their sin and don't resign.

Comment By Les, 8-31-07

Sandy said:

"Craig's immoral, deceitful, disgusting, vile and illegal behavior is what should push those in Idaho to get rid of him."

Did you push for Clinton to resign for his immoral, deceitful, disgusting, vile Oval Office behavior And for lying to the citizens over and over about it?

Comment By Bill, 9-01-07

Regarding the crime of solicitation, I wonder how many hets have been arrested for solicitation? If police really wanted to treat gay people and straight people equally, why not send a police woman dressed in a halter top to a cowboy bar at closing time, and see if she gets solicited! :) Or if the police are concerned about sex in public places, why not send police cruisers to "lovers lanes" where straight teenagers go on Friday nights?! My guess is they ignore public sex by straights, and target only gay people! ---

Comment By Harvard Hollenberg, 9-04-07

9-4-2007

Self-righteousness always carries the danger of a backfire.

The Republicans have had a pretty good run with their "holier-than-thou" approach. However, the odds seem to have broken against them.

In place of problem-solving and leveling with the people, the tendency to try to evoke moral indignation seems to be wearing thin, as a political ploy.

Now, when they seek to change the subject from the excesses and failures of the G.W. Bush Administration, and how to correct them, to the imputed sins of others, perhaps the public, even voters way out on the right, might be moved to say, "Hold on a minute. That's not what we need to talk over."

Besides, Larry Craig is right. He's not gay. He's H-O-M-O-S-E-X-U-A-L.

All the best,

Harvard Hollenberg

Comment By Daryl L. Hunter, 9-05-07

I was just reviewing this thread after not looking at it since last year because I was going to post a link on another blog until I noticed that about 50 comments had been removed.

Daryl L. Hunter

Comment By Foot-tapper, 9-05-07

What do you call a gay-homophobe? Will a new term come from this recent pattern, or has one been created already?

Comment By Chuck, 8-13-08

I am a straight person. I didn't choose to be straight, just as one doesn't choose to be otherwise. I am labeled a breeder and a homophobe. Nice, huh? I have no problem treating all sexual persuasions equally - but not with any more favor than another. I would like to know, however, why homosexuals seem to be so anxious telling the world about their sexuality? I don't run around telling people I'm straight! I think maybe it's so others will know they are available for sex? hat was NOT a slap in the face; just an observation and I will gladly stand corrected.

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